My annual yearly analysis

as mentioned in a previous post 

i have mentioned something about the yearly analysis that i always do

which is a simple thorough look into my own life

which anyone can adapt and use to themselves 

through out the past year 

what has been done

what has been achieved

anything new

or anything that has happened 

which has been the catalyst 

to do or achieve more

and then after that analysis 

you come to a conclusion of what you are doing in life

and where you are headed and then

make a small plan of what you would want to achieve after that 

so lets begin with the basic bullet points of what happened in my life

* Starting off the year with a new opportunity
little did i know what it hid for me but it was challenging

*finding love
it was not planned for but that is how things go in life
and as swift as it came, it also left

*hard reminding lessons of life
that nothing is constant, and that sometimes
it is hard to accept that even those who are close to you
can actually be or cause harm at some certain level to you

*Question Everything !
supporting to the point above,

* experimenting with my limits 

with the new opportunity that i got
i had a lot of (testings) with my limits
abilities and patience
and of course i have known my limits

* Diving into new things
trying out new experiments and
always getting on new challenges

and so that is pretty much what i have encountered
in this year
hoping for the next year to face more opportunities
and more challenges 

Its that usual time of the year

Hello everyone 

whom ever is having a great day 

and for those who are not believing in the end of the world

(well nothing happened) 

continuing on with what is remaining of this year

which went quite so fast too 

one can only sit back and try to reflect into what has happened 

within a year 

and thus comes that one thing 

that habit which i have created personally

and which i still urge you all to do 

which is the (Yearly Analysis) 

now what is the yearly analysis ?

just like in business 

any organization evaluates its performance throughout the year

and so even us as goal setting people 

asses ourselves 

we see what we have reached and achieved

and we see what we would like to achieve 

and thus comes the yearly analysis

you evaluate yourself from different aspects 

and then set goals from what you have evaluated 

its something to reflect personally on 

what you would like to do 

and where would you like to reach 

and generally what do you want to do in life !

i will share with you all an example of this later on 

and i do urge you all to try and perhaps even enhance and perfect on 

this analysis 

this is not just a one rule fit for all 

it can be created to suite anyone 

but i am different !

 a topic that got my attention for some time

it is something i have noticed with some people

it is a bit irritating to see

and it is also a bit concerning 

some may or may not pay much attention to it

personally i thought that this topic must be at least 

brought up and to see what would other people think about !

now speaking of personality 

of course you are an accumulation of different things

you would be having good in you and bad in you

now after getting into that small introduction 

we get into the topic, and its some sort of a personal encounter that i had

the other day i got into some sort of disagreement with someone

it was something of a personal matter

and the other person was trying to prove a point

or more actually trying to prove himself 

by using the statement which i believe everyone heard like a dozen times already

and the statement is 

(But i am different than the rest ....)

at that point i thought to myself, how original 

stating that you are quite unlike the others

now as thought it may be true that that person is quite different that the other

one can think and point out a few things 

1- of course you are different people are this way !

2- its never original the way you prove that you are different by just saying it

and even if you said it, it will not prove it 

as the majority repel from such statements

at this current day and age 

people prefer smart articulated statements

not plain old (run of the mill) type of statements 

in fact 

if anyone believes they are different 

they won't be needing to prove it to anyone

you are individually the way you are

without any proof needed 

and as Dr.Seuss said 

“Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You.”

Whats on your mind?

Any one in any given time

face that dreaded accumulation of thoughts 

its a moment were thoughts 

as random as they can decide to have a (Party Inside your head) 

so to speak

its totally natural to have that accumulation 

it comes especially when you are about to go to bed

you start thinking of something you did throughout your day

then contemplate on it and think about other things

you think about what you should be doing 

also for the next day, and then you think about that incident

which was totally unnecessary and embarrassing

and so ... you know where is this going yeah? 

and sometimes the tolerable version of this story
happens when you are a bit awake

in either cases you do feel a bit irritated from the fact
that what ever thoughts you are having
are haunting your mind

and that there is no escape for that
well ... almost

the other day i had en experience
where i had these reoccurring thoughts
which haunted me constantly

they were relating to a person
who i knew
i got my courage
and just thought of saying what i wanted to say to that person

much to my surprise it was not quite understood by them

although it did not bother me one bit
as i was only able to just express my mind out

(although i might owe that person a little more explanation rather than leaving them hanging on)

it made me feel a bit more better
since i have been able to take a load off of my chest

not a lot could get the chance
according to the situation that they have

but there are many ways one can just express what is on their minds
it can be expressed with a bit of creativity
and it can be dealt with with great care and tentativeness

just try to keep your mind free of random thoughts from time to time
and try to make them understandable when you expressing them

New Explorations

I got the inspiration to write for this article

from a toastmaster speech 

for a new member to the local club in which i attend regularly

the speech mainly talked about exploration

expanding out and exploring the world 

in which we live in 

and he continued on to mention that exploration

has been taken to a new level

where not just land and waters were being explored

but to reach out beyond the horizon 

to explore in space 

and at that point 

it got me ...

i added after the end of the speech 

a small little remark 

in which gave me the inspiration to this article

and i said 

" we may have explored lands and waters, however there is a place we may have not explored, or we choose to be a bit reluctant to explore ... which is our self's"

our inner self

what makes us the way we are

what we are consisted of 

it is true,

that we tend to not give much attention 

when it comes to exploring ourselves 

to try and figure out what we really are

our strengths and weak points 

and what could be our potentials 

we tend to do so 

sometimes directly or indirectly

because we generally 

do not know about ourselves

or about the matter mainly 

how to explore ?

where to start?

its totally fine 

just realize the fact that you need to explore yourself

and then all rest will follow up later on

and all will unfold to clear its self within time

and you will then discover how to explore yourself 

i will also be joining you all dear readers and try to explore myself too

and perhaps share more point from after this article !

OMG i doomed myself - Part 2

last year i wrote an article

in the exact same title 

within almost the same time frame 

and since most of my articles
are somewhat related to each other
(actually they are always related to each other)

i decided to share with you my thoughts in a rather different
method of expression
in which personally i have made
linking in most of what i have posted
(and actually learned through out the course of time)

and post it up to share it with you all
most of what i am about to say
will be in bullet points and will be easy to follow up towards the main idea
which i want to say

so here we go :

* Yes you have the right to make mistakes
it is something essential in life for you to learn
no matter how hard the lesson is
it will teach you

*you may have the right to do mistakes
but don't forget that you also have to bear the consequences
to your wrong doings even if you did not like it
you cannot simply run away from the consequences especially if they are haunting you directly !

*Realization is a key factor
for the Arabic Proverb said
(if you knew that is a problem, and if you did not know then its a bigger problem)

it goes a long way into trying to solve the problem
for it is even before confessing having a problem
it is to realize it !

*OMG i doomed myself again !
yes that is the part where you can frantically panic
or just vent out in none aggressive none harmful manners

*solving the problem
after frantically panicking, you can now proceed to solve the problem
or try to solve it with what ever means available

just remember
you can "Doom" yourself many times
but preferably some want to avoid  (dooming oneself)
so it brings us to another point

* Think and study options
to minimize the mistakes that may occur

and thus we end this article
with a small little note

we don't actually take all that i have mentioned seriously
or even think about it !

Happy 2nd Birthday To the (not a life expert) Blog !

it was in this same timing as last year

where it started with an (AHA moment) 

and then continued through out 2 years now

giving out articles on various topics 

relating to people, life, and experiences worth sharing

and now continuing to the second year 

here we are celebrating 

all that is about life 

and about relationships

and the people who come together in to this unique mix

giving out an array of experience worth sharing

and things to talk about with people

and most importantly to learn and share with one another

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BLOG ! 

may you continue on giving out topics 

and sharing thoughts with everyone else

learning and achieving too !

confrontation in conflict

Its natural to disagree

sometimes in order to agree you have to disagree

sometimes we tend to hold opinions in passion

and within the heated discussion of different opinion 

conflict occurs

it is all natural for people to disagree

and in the same time hold that certain opinion with passion 

and eventually lead to conflict of those opposing opinions

that is all natural due to the fact of having different personalities

and perceptions towards life in general and towards

thus translating all those in different vibes
and send out those vibes outwardly

we do come up to the main point

confrontation ,,,

many dread the fact that confrontation
(although it is the healthy way in dishing feelings, emotions, thoughts out)

that is because not everyone can handle a confrontation
which could lead to a negative outcome
if it is not talked out in a diplomatic way

although the right way is to take the confrontation way
but one must not take it especially
if the person who they are confronting are of unpredictable nature

(i know from a personal experience i won't (and i can't) dream on confronting that certain person who is known to have a very irritable disposition and who is also prone to just take it personally and also turn whatever topic and pin point a finger towards me)

* If you have the Diplomatic ability
* If you have the strength and courage
* If you can see beyond the minor irrelevant talk back from a person who confronts you

then you are safe to go ahead and confront

but if you fear for your life (the way i do)
then RUN FOR YOUR LIFE !

and take these preventive measures
(especially if you are facing a person of an irritable disposition)

* Avoid hitting sensitive points such as the famous "card shuffling" move
it only worsens the situations

* Try to take more creative options
although they only last temporarily

* learn more diplomatic ways in confrontation

* avoid stacking up feelings as they accumulate
 and then the main point which is suppose to be conveyed gets lost
within all the other things that accumulated

wishing you all a good confrontation =)
and a safe battle (LOL)

You have all the rights to be foolish and stupid, of course you will bear the consequences

Happy Eid Al-Adha

Dear readers from all over the world

may you have a blessed day where ever you are

the other day a random conversation with a stranger 

got me to think about happy endings

some do prefer to rely on that fuzzy warm heart happy ending 

which reassures the reader to a very happy ending that would occur eventually

(a debatable issue but nonetheless its something that dose reassure a person)

and some prefer to have an alternative ending

an open ending that has open possibilities 

it got me to thinking that

its always something for sure people would prefer to not risk it

and play it safe and thus gain that happy ending

and for some 

having a little risk is OK 

and we all know the more risk involved with something

the more the gains are from that thing

now the main part which made me think is that

in all this risk game that one makes

its a perfect balance 

its like a chess game cause one move you make effects the whole

game play that you have 

it is as if one must play it wisely 

and play it right 

or else its (checkmate) ! 

so is your life in the bigger picture we are trying to show

you have all the rights to be foolish

and be stupid

do foolish stupid things in life

however you are the master of your own demise !

go and do what ever you would want to do in life

however be responsible of what comes up from that later

seems easy enough of a lesson to try and learn

but quite hard to really apply 

since most of us tend to forget about it 

but then learn it again when it hits again

but fear not, for not everything in life can have bad consequences 

if it did not bring to you what you wanted

it taught you what you should know to avoid 

and not to do that mistake again 

it breaks you !

based on an article (which if i was not mistake) 

i wrote in, about the reasons of why we have bad things going on in our lives

yes it is quite often that we have many bad things that happen and occur in our lives

which are varying in the extent of damage that it brings

or in the extent of effect that it makes (The bad event) in our lives

now we do argue quite a lot 

on the event and how come this event had to happen to us

it goes in a varying degree of argument 

how we deal with the (bad event)

sure it is bad and sure it really is heavy on our hearts once this thing happens 

the other day i was watching a TV show 

which dealt with issues of this extent 

and then the presenter of the show said something that made me wonder

and made me write this article

You have be Broken 

bad things come along 

in order to break you

then from after that

it reconstructs you again

and as plain and simple as that sentences came out

it made me wonder

yes sometimes the bad event can be devastating 

(the loss of a loved one, traumatic event ...etc)

which is something incomparable to the minor problems or events

but yes sometimes you have to be broken in order to relive again

and to reconstruct yourself again

i still am searching for the answer to why you have to be broken

but i know i won't be able to find the answer 

but you would know for sure that no one has the answer for anything in life

and we are yet to discover many things

but in order for us to discover things 

we have to be broken 

in order to be reconstructed again !

Where do you see yourself in five years?

recently  friend of mine went through a job interview

of course we all have been through such things

asking typical questions

and asking quite the challenging ones

which extract and show the interviewer 

the depth of the interviewee's personality

it can range from simple questions like

(What best describes you?)

or it can be quite deep like

(What would you do if you were put in this certain situation and faced with certain issues?)

it may not seem like a deep question

but in general asking questions 

at a varying levels can show the depth of personality

but one questions stands outside the crowd 

its somewhat simple 

but in our story, our hero found it a bit challenging 

or more accurately made him think

and the question was

(Where do you see yourself in five years from now?)

some may have the answer to this question some may not have the answer 

some of us have that plan of what to do after those five years

and some don't 

and its not something bad not to have the plan for after five years

its because one cannot simply predict

what he could be doing within five years from now

based on where he is at in the present

some do have an idea based on his visioning,

but one forgets the present and how it has its effect too !

Dear Readers , DON'T PANIC !

just don't over think it

i know i have mentioned this as a topic to think about

however don't lose the grip of it all

the proverb states clearly

to neither dwell in the past nor the future 

in a way that we lose the present

rather live the present in order to build and progress

towards the future.

a festive Eid to think of things !

Greetings and happy eid al fitr 

to all Muslim brethren 

my god accept your good deed 

and your faithful duties 

now this eid has a bit of a twist to it

as i was enjoying my time with my family

i have just reflected on certain things

and thought about many issues

of course one thing remained in my mind 

the whole process 

and i thought to myself

i should be thankful 

yes with many bad things occurring and with all that is happening in the world   

one cannot help but think thankful

its enough to be thankful for the fact that one can spend 

this time with the people he cares for the most

that is one thing

and its true quite a lot of bad things are happening now a days

but it only makes us think of how we take things for granted

we don't realize it until it hits us

and yes all the rest just follows in perfectly

how the fact that you are alive and well

and you are spending a nice time with the people you love the most

so yes ... in the spirit of eid al fitr

and in accordance to my last article that i wrote

about being thankful

i am this eid thankful for all that i am having at the moment

and for all that i am getting !

Rebirths

at certain points in life
we all experience that moment

of when we start all over again
or start with a clean slate

or more accurately
start anew with a (Rebirth)

recently we all had quite a shock
when my father has gotten his retirement process speed up

we were all at shock
although now that all is settled
we all see that
this is just a another moment in life
when we experience a rebirth

a new situation
a new life
a new scenario

all this telling us that life is ever chaining
and in every second there is something new

and that it is never ending
and at any minute you can have
a moment of

(Rebirth)

that awful point of stagnation

well ... talking from a personal point of view

have you ever reached that point of stagnation ?

i mean OK stagnation is a big word

it mainly means in general terms

reaching to a point where you are stuck in

economically 

that prolonged period of slow economic growth

in other terms 

(Stuck in a rut) 

that is painful isn't it ?

(talking personally)

feeling as if you are stuck in a position you dislike

with no sense of direction

and certainly no hopes for a better tomorrow

i know it hurts 

knowing that you are filled with dreams and hopes 

for that better tomorrow

you feel that you are stuck in a current situation that dose not

help you to achieve that better tomorrow

but you know what?

its time to stop !

to stop all that

and to begin again

yes you can all get out of that evil thing called (stuck in a rut)

and achieve the better tomorrow you dreamed of 

first you have to know the situation that you are stuck in

it can be stuck in a job, or that your life has become into a rhythmic systematic routine 

in order to break the cycle that you are in

secondly you have to believe in yourself

its a key important thing to do, one needs to believe that he is capable

of adapting a thought and believing that he can achieve it

add to that a positive mind set which can help you to continue with your thought

then we start with the tricky part

what you should do next !

its a perfect opportunity to see where you are in life

meaning to set for yourself goals and objectives to be achieved

this way it will make your 

recalling what you really wanted to achieve 

or wanted to do which in turn will get you moving

that is of course if you are moving rather than staying put

doing the latter will actually enhance your situation of being stuck in a rut

SO lets all get up and lets all get out of that awful dreaded situation 

i personally will do that !

Being thankful

first of all i would like to give a warm greeting 

for the holly month of Ramadhan to my dear readers

may it be a blessed month to all

Secondly in the spirit of this month 

i would love to just talk about this topic

where we also tend to forget quite often

and in the middle of it all we tend to sound a bit 

(ungrateful) 

its not that we are doing it on purpose 

it is because we have lost our focus on life which makes us sound bitter and eventually ungrateful 

what it is ... is that 

we look at our life and then 

we complain of what is lacking in it

we don't have (x) of a certain thing

it could be something of material procession

or a certain goal to be reached 

and in the middle of it all 

we remind our self's

how we are short out of that desire that we want

or how we are just not lucky if we did not have that certain something

in our life 

and wow ... how many times have we thought about it

that if we had that certain something 

we would be more happier people

but what we forget the most 

is to be thankful towards what we already have

yes that is true

to be thankful of what we currently have

   

for what we already are having rather than what we don't have

and what we want to have

for some it would sound just stupid and useless

since its not what they want 

but think about it

the minute you write down what you are thankful for

you then realize 

you will realize that you have quite a lot to be thankful for

of course i don't speak for all 

it may differ from one person to another

and this in no way is an excuse not to aspire for higher goals or ambitions 

but still the main idea

is to realize what you have 

to be able to see the wider image 

and to try and measure out things !

so lets start being thankful for what we have

and maybe we will see things differently 

It only takes that moment !

recently a disaster occurred locally

where a fire took out a local "open market"

 there were no casualties from the fire

thankfully no one got hurt

yes there was damage, and yes lives change

but one can only think of many things from this incident

many lessons come up 

of course we tend to not recall those lessons 

and life can have a habit of reminding us of those lessons

either in a subtle way or quite openly 

one lesson which i recall 

from this whole incident is 

how can one lose in just that moment 

think about it !

it take one minute to make a mistake and lose it all 

it takes moments

and all is gone 

all the hard work 

all of what was worked for

all what any one tried so hard to reach for

can all be gone in a matter of moments !

and one can only start all over again

one simply cannot bare the emotional burden from such incident

and it will be difficult for anyone to overcome such situation

but one can only do that in order to just overcome and move on

it will not be easy 

it will not be

but that is the only way one can ever move on

and wish that life will bring up something good along the way

happiness is not for ever, and sadness never lasts forever  

what do we really want in life ?

i wondered recently 

with life and its ever changing situations 

and with all of its ups and downs

with all the fluctuations of life

with all the different situations 

clearly at each and at every single point it seems

that we have this ever growing (need)

it could be materialistic it could be an intangible thing that we desire 

its amazing how sometimes we switch from wanting a box of chocolates to wanting love affection

and its also amazing in the same retrospect that we go and buy things 

just to feel wanted or to feel that we are within the crowd 

when all that was wanted was the need to belong 

basically speaking 

we have Maslow's Hierarchy of needs 

interpreting what we need as human beings 

what is considered to be basic 

and from it we can trace all what follows after from that 

but when you think about it

needs are changing in life 

what you used to need before is not what you need right now

something that is now rendered obsolete

and you keep on thinking of what is next 

what you really want 

and then comes the big question 

(What Do We Really want in life?) 

of course lets break this down a bit more into details

you have wants and you have needs

and basically what you need is something necessary to live by

and what you want it simply an extension of your desire 

- so to speak -

and it just is mind boggling to see mixing up of what you really need with what you want

and how people just fell into that trap (including me personally) of just buying stuff

and buying more stuff since the old stuff became useless 

(which is false since that old stuff is perfectly fine)

we have fallen into a mess ! 

of buying stuff in the name of (need) when you just do not need them

we have became something of a consuming society 

where personal possessions rule us 

and some of us are the lucky ones who survived all this 

or who are well aware of this ! 

just remember 

there is a difference (as i mentioned before) 

from what you want and what you need !

what do we know about living ?

an interesting question that has came across 

when i was having an interesting conversation 

with an old friend i am reconnecting with

we talked about a lot of things 

and we stumbled upon the topic of "living life" 

and the whole basic question of 

how to live life ?

but before even going into that question 

we both pondered at the issue of 

(how do you live your life?)

i may have spoken about this topic relatively 

in previous articles, although i do not believe it was thoroughly discussed

how do you live your life?

we were talking about certain issues then we came to a point about me 

where i was like ( ok so i graduated from University and i got a degree ... what is next?)

its that part (What is next?) that got us into the question of asking 

what do we know about living ?

you live through life 

some may achieve goals

some may achieve something !

others may choose to settle down 

since they have nothing else to do !

and that got the both of us wondering 

of course we are not saying anyone is wrong

its just that how are we suppose to do it ?

most of us live under influence of something

culture, norm ... etc

which somehow dictates to us how to live our life 

most of us fall into the norm that everyone does 

graduate study

then 

work 

then

get money

then

get settled 

and so in the middle of it all 

one sometimes asks what am i suppose to do ?

what is next?

what could be that certain thing that i can reach up to ?

after all this one will not know

how to live life, no matter how much he learns

life is a big thing 

and we all do not know a single thing about it

and i for one cannot tell a certain answer 

all i can say

keep looking forward

live today and think about tomorrow

and always think about chasing what you really dream to do in life !

choices and opportunities

we all get choices in life and opportunities to choose from

sometimes we are able to see such opportunities

sometimes we are unable to do so

and sometimes the opportunity comes without us knowing

and the whole course of how things go in in life unfolds afterwards

there are also times where you find yourself in a certain setting 

with a certain status in life

if that setting and status were the ones that you were hoping to achieve 

you look back and you gaze upon that as an achievement

if it was not you will surely ask your self how did you get there?

i share with you again a personal story that happened to me 

just today 

recently i got the call from a company offering me a job

while i was waiting for an international internship program

which i have registered for before this

which was quite confusing to begin with

you want something and then something else comes along

which was unexpected

of course i personally fought with doubts

should i choose this or choose that

and i also thought of the long term implications for such actions that i would take

(of course you should not think of the outcome for anything in life and go where ever you are taken)

i also reached out to friends for help 

of course they did not hesitate to help me out

and they told me on their part to choose 

accordingly and move towards the choice 

and forget the outcome 

little did i know that circumstances can have its own way with things

it may present to you an opportunity 

but gives you better ones while you don't know

it may take it from you but only

to give you something else which makes you move forward towards what you really want

and i personally say

be open to what life may give you 

if you did not get what you wanted in the first place

you can always move yourself towards what you wanted

which ever way you want

what ever possible path you choose

just remember that opportunities open infinite number of other opportunities

its like a hidden opportunity inside an opportunity

ps thank you friends who have helped me in guiding me to my path

this article is dedicated to you all =)

where are you going in life?

in continuation with what i have written in the previous article

about how one can find themselves all of a sudden

out of luck, and that doors keep on closing in their faces

and probably having to start all over again at any given point in life

which dose again brings another question 

where are you going in life?

naturally we are all seeking a direction to go to in life

looking for that path, road

were it will take us to 

where ever we desire to be

that job that we always wanted

that position of wealth were we wished for 

that place where we feel power !

and it dose make you always think 

and ask yourself these questions

what are you doing right now?

what is it that you want to do?

are you going anywhere?

is it a promising destination at the end?

will you feel at comfort at that place?

its all these questions that need some sort of answer

were in you cannot get the answer at the instance quickly

you need to search for it

you need to seek out for that direction, path, road in life

that you have always wanted to go through

it will be scary at first knowing that you are facing the unknown 

and that you do not know what you will be doing

and sometimes you get to carried away thinking of what could 

happen at the end of that road

and you think about the stuff there 

however you must stay clear headed 

and accept what may come 

for it is the first step to just go through 

and in the end i leave you with a proverb said by (Imam Ali A.s)

لا تستوحشوا طريق الحق لقله سالكيه 

fear not the path of truth because it is less traveled 

start all over again ?

its one of those times in life

when you start to look around and hope to find that window of opportunity

only to find it shutting down at your face !

let me share with you all a personal story which happened not so long ago

(just a few days ago as a matter of fact)

i have been looking around 

trying to find a scholarship of some sort

or an internship 

any opportunity which is considered to be a challenge

and a window to step out from 

what i would consider my comfort zone

and to head into another challenge in life

i did try to reach out and see for whatever opportunity 

i could reach out to

and of course

i got rejected since i did not meet up with the criteria of that opportunity

a friend of mine said the typical sentence 

" you should have taken things seriously" and " you should have worked hard"

unfortunately those do not work at the moment in time 

since i have fell into circumstances 

however that is what i am suppose to face 

you reach "Rock bottom" so to speak

and you try to look for a way out

yes you will fail at start

and you will face a number of difficulties along the way

and yes there will be (Hopefully) 

a light in the end of the tunnel 

which will take you out on that window of opportunity

so this is a message to you all 

from a very personal experience

Never Give up !
Because normally  you will find your self starting all over again
at any given point in life

lies nonsense and what goes in between

lately i have been bombarded with 

loads of articles and stuff that always challenges the mind

and tells you to think in a different fashion

surely one thing that most of us face now a days is 

(Bull$h!+)

the whole wad of cheap talk that goes around

and gets circulated a bit too much

i read an article recently 

in which talks about "nonsense" 

were it says that it can come from anyone

its no longer something for

-politicians 

-sales people

or who ever has something that is pushing hard to sell to others

it actually tells you that the people you think are good 

who don't sell you load of nonsense are the ones who could actually be the real criminals

"something to think about"

for example 

your parents!

or your teachers

or your supposedly good friend 

they too can be "Bs-ers" 

so to speak 

which again is a call for all of us to think about how things work in life

we are all fed certain ideas, thoughts, beliefs

which we take with us along the way as we grow up

we believe in them, and sometimes we choose to question them

its the latter part were we have to be doing 

to question things 

and question what we all know

for what we know is nothing compared to the vast knowledge

and all that is around and available in this life

we never know what is the truth until we choose to question it

and search for what could be the truth behind it 

in the end 

we all have to activate our brains 

and try to detect what is real from what is not !

detachment

every wondered how really the world works in?

i mean how sometimes you have to choose the "unconventional" way

in order to get things around

i have mentioned a number of times in past articles

how we human beings are "counter intuitive" creatures 

it also applies to how things go around in the world

with a more broader concept 

"detachment"

the opposite of attachment

lets do some simple explanations

being attached 

is when you are totally involved into something 

and you are so attached to whatever that thing is

and what ever that thing might result in

giving it attention, time, effort 

and the opposite "Detached"

is when you are indifferent towards the issue or the thing you are attached to,

literally not involved into the matter and not caring to what it could result in

of course not in a careless way "in regards to the latter point of the explanation"

the whole point is to learn that 

when you are attached yes you give attention, time and effort

and that you have an amount of holding on emotionally towards the thing that you are attached to

thus of course having a great deal of stress and emotional pain

as one is not aware of what might have been 

hoping for something that could have been

is happens when you fear of the future

from what it might bring 

of unwanted result 

its only when you let go of your fear 

you learn to accept what could come 

from the future

and embrace what it gives 

you learn then what is detachment

when you look at it 

its all about the laws of attraction 

the more you think about it

the less power you have over it

the more controlling it becomes over one self 

resulting in unwanted results 

however go the opposite way around

and you can see 

that its a matter of love vs. fear

just remember to do the following


- live and let be 
(you learn in time valuable lessons)


- resistance only creates resistance
(its like fighting fire with fire)


- have faith 
(it what keeps you go on)


- always be positive
(its a powerful force)