it breaks you !

based on an article (which if i was not mistake) 

i wrote in, about the reasons of why we have bad things going on in our lives

yes it is quite often that we have many bad things that happen and occur in our lives

which are varying in the extent of damage that it brings

or in the extent of effect that it makes (The bad event) in our lives

now we do argue quite a lot 

on the event and how come this event had to happen to us

it goes in a varying degree of argument 

how we deal with the (bad event)

sure it is bad and sure it really is heavy on our hearts once this thing happens 

the other day i was watching a TV show 

which dealt with issues of this extent 

and then the presenter of the show said something that made me wonder

and made me write this article

You have be Broken 

bad things come along 

in order to break you

then from after that

it reconstructs you again

and as plain and simple as that sentences came out

it made me wonder

yes sometimes the bad event can be devastating 

(the loss of a loved one, traumatic event ...etc)

which is something incomparable to the minor problems or events

but yes sometimes you have to be broken in order to relive again

and to reconstruct yourself again

i still am searching for the answer to why you have to be broken

but i know i won't be able to find the answer 

but you would know for sure that no one has the answer for anything in life

and we are yet to discover many things

but in order for us to discover things 

we have to be broken 

in order to be reconstructed again !