a question i contemplated many times today
as i was going through a phase at my life
i just got detached from something i thought would bring
probable joy to my life (or so i thought)
we get to that ugly stage of (being wound up in mixed emotions)
you then figure things out
you re-evaluate yourself and recalculate what was it that you have been doing wrong
and then you decide to move on
that was the thing that i went through
i made my mistakes and i have re-calculated what i should be doing again in my life
and then i decided that its time for me to move on !
Pretty natural isn't it?
how this cycle of progression is in life
Mistake - Realization - Correcting - Moving on
it's the last bit that was a bit confusing to me
its somewhere along that process where you give yourself time
to heal and reflect and progress from the whole matter that you encountered
but sometimes you ask yourself
When should i move on?
fact of the matter is
and as much as it sounds (obviously dumb)
There is no perfect time to move on
just like that decision you want to take on for a big project
like for example you tell yourself (I want to start a healthy lifestyle)
and then you think mostly about (when) you want to do that
and end up not doing it !
well here is what you need to know
there is not perfect timing to do things
if you discovered that you failed at when you started
you discovered that it was a bad timing and you went back to square one
if you hit it off from the start then you know it was right all along !
never tell yourself i will start doing something next week, next month
or in the eve of the new year
JUST DO IT (and no that is not a reference to Nike ads hehe)
make today the day where you decide to take that initiative
and do that thing that you have always to (nonchalantly postpone)