the greatest human experience (4)

its always amazing how it is

the human experience

how you meet with great people along the way

and learn quite a lot

i urge you all my dear readers 

to just take the chance and have a bite 

of how it is the human experience ~

back to the topic

i did mention above how it is amazing to find great people in your life

amazing people

how you get the chance to meet them

and have a great time with them 

having many experiences

feeling a lot of things 

a new lesson that i have learned 

in which i still think about till this minute 

do good things come to an end ?

the answer is still under research

but the story behind it goes as follows

have you ever fell in love ?

that it was so true 

that you live great moments with 

and you live day by day 

knowing how great it is 

and then you come to that day

that you knew it was coming

but never thought it would come so soon

yes my dear readers

i have fell in love

i have experienced it for what it is

i have tasted it 

i know how it feels 

i know how it goes

i knew that one day it may take a unknown turn

but i have never thought that the day would come so soon

i only have one thing to confess 

that i have no regrets what so ever

again we tend to forget that one lesson 

that our time is limited 

that we should make the best of what he have

and yes that is what i intend to do

but in the end of the day

i learn from that lesson

i grow stronger

i become a better (me)

and who knows 

we all know that it could be the end 

but we can make it the beginning 

and i hope you all learn as well from your own lessons

my dear readers

and grow strong 

and become a better (you) 

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what happened ?

well i chose this title for starters

because the nature of the situation that i saw was a bit 

confusing and rather interesting to share with you all 

it could be a situation some of you have went through

i leave the comments for you all to judge on this matter

so lets start ..... 

it happened as a family of 4 the father and three sons 

went for the usual "juma-Friday" prayers

and as they took one of the cars which belonged to the family

(incidentally they took the one which the younger son rides frequently)

the father noticed as he was going into the car how the car was in a bit

unclean he protested on this thing 

and as soon as the son (who rides the car) came in 

he started complaining on how the car is messy

and how it is not so clean 

and scolded the son for that

of course the son kept silent 

and all went well they family rode the car and started moving towards the Masjid

along the way the father kept on rambling and started shuffling cards

(shuffling cards as in started bringing irrelevant issues to the matter just because of the unclean car)

along with the card shuffling the father started talking badly (which was not accepted)

the son quickly protested on this matter 

and the issue died as soon as the protest was risen 

everyone kept silent all along the way ....

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now after seeing this story (which was told by a friend of mine)

we see here many issues 

where do you begin with?

sometimes people get carried away with their emotions

and they do misbehave and talk badly

and sometimes it is ( as much as its not fair and really not acceptable) unfortunate

to see this example of how people badly just shuffle irrelevant issues just to 

scold people out and to get the chance to nail them 

when ever and where ever at any point 

it could also be a mistake when the son protested on how badly the father started talking

but the main point was how the car was unclean 

it was only a simple issue 

which could have been resolved 

without even scolding 

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dear readers this serves as a story with moral for you all to learn many lessons from

take it however you want and share it with everyone 

and do not hesitate to express what you feel from this topic 

as this is an open space for everyone 

to learn from one another

Drained out?

as time goes by

and as surroundings change in life

you cannot help but feel sometimes 

a bit down

or feel a bit not really doing your best

you would feel that there is something missing

that there is something out there waiting for you 

but you just don't know what it is

or how to get it !

you would feel as if you have reach a point of "saturation"

so to speak 

a stagnant point 

where you feel you are stuck at a point

and its just "Nothing"

nothing in the sense of not going either up or down

or heading towards a certain direction

or maybe heading towards a direction but its not the desired one at all

and here comes the part where i "personally" would say

" Its Totally Normal ! "

we do find ourselves in unexpected detours and turns

(as i have mentioned in previous articles)

but for now ...

how do we take the other route out of this situation ?

well we can ... live in that situation and see where it takes you to 

(not exactly recommended if you are looking for a quick solution like me)

OR 

try something out of the ordinary

keep on seeking that thing that you are looking for in life

try one day to break the monotonous routine 

(which of course brought you to this position in the first place)

and perhaps along the way you will find something 

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Please share with us what you think about this matter

if you can relate to it some way or another

and share with us your story 

we all can learn from each other =)