Reconsider, but also consider !

in life and in relationships specifically 

there comes a time when there are pinpointing 

signs that tell you things are going well 

or things are not going well 

sometimes when ever you get the message from life

or your significant other 

it can be one message

that is completely unknown 

or just plain vague 

it feels as if it is a hidden message 

that you need to decipher 

or needs decryption

    and sometimes you come to that pinnacle point

where you are in a cross road 

you feel that you need to pick a road

and you would arrive into what they call 

a reconsidering point !

yest reconsidering 

you come to reconsider the current situation that you are in

should you do plan A 

should you opt for plan B

or what about choose Road B instead of Road A

you would reconsider and evaluation

the situation 

and the all the relating matters to it

before intending on a decision 

and thus you have the (reconsidering) part 

now it is something naturally occurring to do

to reconsider the situation you are in

and probably think of solutions

or alternative routes to it

it is as a natural mechanism 

when you are in a certain situation 

you would feel like you need to do something

and in that point

it is when you start reconsidering 

but also on the other hand

when you reconsider your situation 

try to also consider the situation its self

meaning you may have read the signs wrongly 

you may be mistaken 

you may have thought that it was 

going bad

but actually everything is going fine

and thus comes the part 

(but also consider) 

and there you have it folks

reconsider, but also consider 

Good luck everyone :) 

seek to understand, to be understood

a famous habit from a very famous author

(Stephen Covey) 

may god rest his soul 

which made me think a lot to it

its part of the 7 habits of highly effective people 

and this particular habit is the 5th habit

which is actually 

quoted

"Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood"

but what dose it mean?

well basically its a self explanatory statement 

in this day and age

misunderstanding one another is just

the big deal that is happening quite lately 

He said

She said

they said 

and everyone say something 

thus you fall into misunderstandings

thus how do you eliminate that in general ?

seek to understand first !

you don't just seek to understand 

but you seek to first know what he is trying to convey to you

as the message that he wants to send in

since everyone has one thing in their minds 

they are the right people and that they have

every single right to have everything

and to have their own say

without anyone else's 

(dictator much? lol) 

but not a  lot feel this way

yes you have a point 

and yes you would want to convey it to 

your opposing party 

but in order to exchange your point with your opposing party 

or person

you must seek to understand them 

and from understanding them 

you will be able to look into what you say

and then exchange back 

your opinion 

after that you know you will be

understood !

a hype of emotions

how can we defined emotions?

can it be the outlet of how we feels?

we feel a certain feeling

and then its translated into an emotion?

or can it be simply a state of mind

which translates how we feel from the inside

and has that one common thing

an adjective to describe 

and that certain emotion can actually have that certain effect

on our behavior 

and sometimes there is that certain (Hype)

that we can get our self into 

which is caused by emotions

that certain excessive abundance of emotion

can get you sometimes into troubles

now a hype of emotion if you did not know by now

is that certain stage where your emotions are just

running extremely high that they are causing you

to be illogical in terms of your behavior 

since it is true there is always that sense of 

interference when emotions are running high

one can tend to do something they might regret later on

and thus comes the statement 

(Never make a decision when you are angry

Never make promises when you are happy)

as you can plainly see that 

just being into those two extremes of emotions 

you can put yourself in that situation 

and so i give you that little 

piece of advice

for you all to think about it

and to try and just realize 

that you need to never put yourself

in that hype of emotions 

and make a mistake !