start all over again ?

its one of those times in life

when you start to look around and hope to find that window of opportunity

only to find it shutting down at your face !

let me share with you all a personal story which happened not so long ago

(just a few days ago as a matter of fact)

i have been looking around 

trying to find a scholarship of some sort

or an internship 

any opportunity which is considered to be a challenge

and a window to step out from 

what i would consider my comfort zone

and to head into another challenge in life

i did try to reach out and see for whatever opportunity 

i could reach out to

and of course

i got rejected since i did not meet up with the criteria of that opportunity

a friend of mine said the typical sentence 

" you should have taken things seriously" and " you should have worked hard"

unfortunately those do not work at the moment in time 

since i have fell into circumstances 

however that is what i am suppose to face 

you reach "Rock bottom" so to speak

and you try to look for a way out

yes you will fail at start

and you will face a number of difficulties along the way

and yes there will be (Hopefully) 

a light in the end of the tunnel 

which will take you out on that window of opportunity

so this is a message to you all 

from a very personal experience

Never Give up !
Because normally  you will find your self starting all over again
at any given point in life

lies nonsense and what goes in between

lately i have been bombarded with 

loads of articles and stuff that always challenges the mind

and tells you to think in a different fashion

surely one thing that most of us face now a days is 

(Bull$h!+)

the whole wad of cheap talk that goes around

and gets circulated a bit too much

i read an article recently 

in which talks about "nonsense" 

were it says that it can come from anyone

its no longer something for

-politicians 

-sales people

or who ever has something that is pushing hard to sell to others

it actually tells you that the people you think are good 

who don't sell you load of nonsense are the ones who could actually be the real criminals

"something to think about"

for example 

your parents!

or your teachers

or your supposedly good friend 

they too can be "Bs-ers" 

so to speak 

which again is a call for all of us to think about how things work in life

we are all fed certain ideas, thoughts, beliefs

which we take with us along the way as we grow up

we believe in them, and sometimes we choose to question them

its the latter part were we have to be doing 

to question things 

and question what we all know

for what we know is nothing compared to the vast knowledge

and all that is around and available in this life

we never know what is the truth until we choose to question it

and search for what could be the truth behind it 

in the end 

we all have to activate our brains 

and try to detect what is real from what is not !

detachment

every wondered how really the world works in?

i mean how sometimes you have to choose the "unconventional" way

in order to get things around

i have mentioned a number of times in past articles

how we human beings are "counter intuitive" creatures 

it also applies to how things go around in the world

with a more broader concept 

"detachment"

the opposite of attachment

lets do some simple explanations

being attached 

is when you are totally involved into something 

and you are so attached to whatever that thing is

and what ever that thing might result in

giving it attention, time, effort 

and the opposite "Detached"

is when you are indifferent towards the issue or the thing you are attached to,

literally not involved into the matter and not caring to what it could result in

of course not in a careless way "in regards to the latter point of the explanation"

the whole point is to learn that 

when you are attached yes you give attention, time and effort

and that you have an amount of holding on emotionally towards the thing that you are attached to

thus of course having a great deal of stress and emotional pain

as one is not aware of what might have been 

hoping for something that could have been

is happens when you fear of the future

from what it might bring 

of unwanted result 

its only when you let go of your fear 

you learn to accept what could come 

from the future

and embrace what it gives 

you learn then what is detachment

when you look at it 

its all about the laws of attraction 

the more you think about it

the less power you have over it

the more controlling it becomes over one self 

resulting in unwanted results 

however go the opposite way around

and you can see 

that its a matter of love vs. fear

just remember to do the following


- live and let be 
(you learn in time valuable lessons)


- resistance only creates resistance
(its like fighting fire with fire)


- have faith 
(it what keeps you go on)


- always be positive
(its a powerful force)

powerful positive mindset

Happy labor day 

Dedicated to all the hardworking people out there

who work hard to live decently 

i dedicate these simple words to you all 

we tend to look down on those people who work

in small jobs that sometimes we consider crappy 

but if it wasn't for them we surely would not be able to function properly 

moving on to the article 

the other day i was driven down with quite a lot of issues 

and i felt quite burdened 

i asked the help of a close friend 

who actually taught me a few things too

this friend always amazed me 

as we meet and talked 

he also started to talk and open up about his problems

and in the end of the conversation

it hit me ....

How can he maintain such a positive mindset 

something powerful i must add

no matter what you face in life

you see that he is maintaining that cool attitude 

and a very open mind and outlook towards his surroundings

the same thing goes to another situation i lived

coming from a very dear person who i love

they have conveyed to me some sad news

which in spite of it 

they kept quite an open attitude towards it

the whole time

it is amazing 

how someone can maintain that type of positive mindset

which can do anything 

and can achieve anything 

it is surely something that we all can learn

so lets do it today and try and be more positive

to gain a better outcome 

and a better perception on what we see