detachment

every wondered how really the world works in?

i mean how sometimes you have to choose the "unconventional" way

in order to get things around

i have mentioned a number of times in past articles

how we human beings are "counter intuitive" creatures 

it also applies to how things go around in the world

with a more broader concept 

"detachment"

the opposite of attachment

lets do some simple explanations

being attached 

is when you are totally involved into something 

and you are so attached to whatever that thing is

and what ever that thing might result in

giving it attention, time, effort 

and the opposite "Detached"

is when you are indifferent towards the issue or the thing you are attached to,

literally not involved into the matter and not caring to what it could result in

of course not in a careless way "in regards to the latter point of the explanation"

the whole point is to learn that 

when you are attached yes you give attention, time and effort

and that you have an amount of holding on emotionally towards the thing that you are attached to

thus of course having a great deal of stress and emotional pain

as one is not aware of what might have been 

hoping for something that could have been

is happens when you fear of the future

from what it might bring 

of unwanted result 

its only when you let go of your fear 

you learn to accept what could come 

from the future

and embrace what it gives 

you learn then what is detachment

when you look at it 

its all about the laws of attraction 

the more you think about it

the less power you have over it

the more controlling it becomes over one self 

resulting in unwanted results 

however go the opposite way around

and you can see 

that its a matter of love vs. fear

just remember to do the following


- live and let be 
(you learn in time valuable lessons)


- resistance only creates resistance
(its like fighting fire with fire)


- have faith 
(it what keeps you go on)


- always be positive
(its a powerful force)