My annual yearly analysis

as mentioned in a previous post 

i have mentioned something about the yearly analysis that i always do

which is a simple thorough look into my own life

which anyone can adapt and use to themselves 

through out the past year 

what has been done

what has been achieved

anything new

or anything that has happened 

which has been the catalyst 

to do or achieve more

and then after that analysis 

you come to a conclusion of what you are doing in life

and where you are headed and then

make a small plan of what you would want to achieve after that 

so lets begin with the basic bullet points of what happened in my life

* Starting off the year with a new opportunity
little did i know what it hid for me but it was challenging

*finding love
it was not planned for but that is how things go in life
and as swift as it came, it also left

*hard reminding lessons of life
that nothing is constant, and that sometimes
it is hard to accept that even those who are close to you
can actually be or cause harm at some certain level to you

*Question Everything !
supporting to the point above,

* experimenting with my limits 

with the new opportunity that i got
i had a lot of (testings) with my limits
abilities and patience
and of course i have known my limits

* Diving into new things
trying out new experiments and
always getting on new challenges

and so that is pretty much what i have encountered
in this year
hoping for the next year to face more opportunities
and more challenges 

Its that usual time of the year

Hello everyone 

whom ever is having a great day 

and for those who are not believing in the end of the world

(well nothing happened) 

continuing on with what is remaining of this year

which went quite so fast too 

one can only sit back and try to reflect into what has happened 

within a year 

and thus comes that one thing 

that habit which i have created personally

and which i still urge you all to do 

which is the (Yearly Analysis) 

now what is the yearly analysis ?

just like in business 

any organization evaluates its performance throughout the year

and so even us as goal setting people 

asses ourselves 

we see what we have reached and achieved

and we see what we would like to achieve 

and thus comes the yearly analysis

you evaluate yourself from different aspects 

and then set goals from what you have evaluated 

its something to reflect personally on 

what you would like to do 

and where would you like to reach 

and generally what do you want to do in life !

i will share with you all an example of this later on 

and i do urge you all to try and perhaps even enhance and perfect on 

this analysis 

this is not just a one rule fit for all 

it can be created to suite anyone 

but i am different !

 a topic that got my attention for some time

it is something i have noticed with some people

it is a bit irritating to see

and it is also a bit concerning 

some may or may not pay much attention to it

personally i thought that this topic must be at least 

brought up and to see what would other people think about !

now speaking of personality 

of course you are an accumulation of different things

you would be having good in you and bad in you

now after getting into that small introduction 

we get into the topic, and its some sort of a personal encounter that i had

the other day i got into some sort of disagreement with someone

it was something of a personal matter

and the other person was trying to prove a point

or more actually trying to prove himself 

by using the statement which i believe everyone heard like a dozen times already

and the statement is 

(But i am different than the rest ....)

at that point i thought to myself, how original 

stating that you are quite unlike the others

now as thought it may be true that that person is quite different that the other

one can think and point out a few things 

1- of course you are different people are this way !

2- its never original the way you prove that you are different by just saying it

and even if you said it, it will not prove it 

as the majority repel from such statements

at this current day and age 

people prefer smart articulated statements

not plain old (run of the mill) type of statements 

in fact 

if anyone believes they are different 

they won't be needing to prove it to anyone

you are individually the way you are

without any proof needed 

and as Dr.Seuss said 

“Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You.”

Whats on your mind?

Any one in any given time

face that dreaded accumulation of thoughts 

its a moment were thoughts 

as random as they can decide to have a (Party Inside your head) 

so to speak

its totally natural to have that accumulation 

it comes especially when you are about to go to bed

you start thinking of something you did throughout your day

then contemplate on it and think about other things

you think about what you should be doing 

also for the next day, and then you think about that incident

which was totally unnecessary and embarrassing

and so ... you know where is this going yeah? 

and sometimes the tolerable version of this story
happens when you are a bit awake

in either cases you do feel a bit irritated from the fact
that what ever thoughts you are having
are haunting your mind

and that there is no escape for that
well ... almost

the other day i had en experience
where i had these reoccurring thoughts
which haunted me constantly

they were relating to a person
who i knew
i got my courage
and just thought of saying what i wanted to say to that person

much to my surprise it was not quite understood by them

although it did not bother me one bit
as i was only able to just express my mind out

(although i might owe that person a little more explanation rather than leaving them hanging on)

it made me feel a bit more better
since i have been able to take a load off of my chest

not a lot could get the chance
according to the situation that they have

but there are many ways one can just express what is on their minds
it can be expressed with a bit of creativity
and it can be dealt with with great care and tentativeness

just try to keep your mind free of random thoughts from time to time
and try to make them understandable when you expressing them