really ... you broke off because of that ?

relationships are well suppose to imply what they mean

a ship! 

a ship that is strong that can sail in any storm, which is based 

on trust, honesty, and well compatibility

now it happens to be that once in a while, a relationship 

cannot last for what ever legitimate reason 

and well sometimes its just a break meant to try and have a look

at the bigger picture.

but what really makes me wonder sometimes are the reasons them selfs

and i have read a number of reasons in an article which i would love to share with you

A NOTE :

i am using the word "relationship" in its WIDEST meaning

it dose imply to friendship and such.

• big fights : surely fights or ... disagreements happen for a reason which intends to make people come closer and not just closer it is intended to show the reality of the other person within that relationship, It is dumb enough not to know how to handle the situation, yet people just don't know how to handle it
• conflict of interest: i heard once a saying that if you wanted to find people who have the same interest as you you might as well look for people who wear the same underwear you are wearing, IT IS NATURAL to have difference it actually is the reason two people came together, as long as there is interest that binds that relationship all is good, AGAIN people should know how to deal smartly with this
• Caught your partner a number of times checking out some guy or girl right in front of you, well i kinda find this a bit awkward however it never dose mean that that partner is "not faithful" i mean YOU are also a culprit in the crime, you do it as well since we are all human beings we get attracted to captivating looks, it actually should drive us to know how to push the buttons in our partners
• when it is not a real relationship : clearly it was not a real thing to begin with to later on end it up, just like how a friend describes to me how some of her classmates engage in a supposedly "relationship" that only ends up after two weeks from knowing each other, either way it is just foolish to say you had a relationship to later on be broken hearted because of the departure of a partner! 
• other reasons: for now i would say sadness and having a defeated stance on love, or having a negative image or just not giving yourself the chance, most of these obvious reasons

all these mentioned reasons plus more 

" which i cant recall or record at the moment"
are really not much of reasons to break off 
or to end things with a person 

the trick if you read is to "KNOW HOW TO ACT"

or how to smartly react to those situations 

you certainly do not need to end up things 

just for what is considered "stupid" reasons

on the other hand there are more convincing and legitimate reasons

for some people, which made them having to end their relationships

KNOW first of all then ACT SMARTLY !