Back again finally to writing on this blog
after a short encounter with final exams
during that time a conversation struck up
with me and a colleague
we were sitting in the library study room with a mutual friend
and she said :
" I still regret the fact that i took this subject
and i did not take that subject with that doctor
it could have been SO easy"
then i was like :
"OH MY GOD have some closure"
that is quite natural for most of us
we tend to grab on to bad decisions we made in the "PAST"
and get "miffed" about it time after time
and of course its also natural to
"express out those bottled up feelings regarding that decision"
it has been once told that a wise man told a joke
to a group of people sitting with him
the first time he said it they all laughed
the second time he said it the laughs subsided
until no one laughed
at this point he smiled and said to them
since you all know the joke and u laughed a couple of times to it
why do you keep on crying on the same wound
a thousand time?
sure you can get annoyed and agitated on a bad decision
you did in the past, but seriously .. have some closure
and continue on living.
you might not know what could have happen
if you lived that hypothetical situation in the past !
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