wanting what you cannot have

i had a conversation the other day

with a dear friend 

and through the conversation

i asked the question 

"Why do we want what we cannot have?"

of course some of us would know the answer

and for me i will admit i kinda did not have the answer

(for a person who SHOULD know it and read the writing on the wall) 

and my friend replied 

and what really made me think was when she said :

(its natural to want what is not ours but then when we have it in our hands

we just don't want it or say ... WRONG CHOICE)

do we really realize what we want ?

mostly we don't, that is partially why that happens 

and then we discover that we did not want it in the first place !

it dose also happen because we as human beings have that curiosity

of wanting to discover, which is fine also 

however i do believe we should again realize 

what we really want !

Look at the big picture

and think 

this dose also go along with the fact 

that we are counter intuitive beings 

and well that is quite right !

we just need to know that 

and we also need to sometimes 

just look at the big picture !