clingy much ?

as i learned from previous articles about the nature

of human beings, what i have learned which seems to be 

something "natural" and "logically" deduced 

is that human beings are "COUNTER-INTUITIVE" creatures

to simplify this term is we mean that human beings are simply

creatures that work in reverse of what is thought to be the natural or right thing to do

when a parent demands a child to study the child will simply not study

and when that parents warns that child from doing a certain act

of course that child will do it

but what i wanted to talk about in this post 

is about that certain issue that bothers some 

which dose fall under that category of "counter-intuitive" 

some of us sometimes tend to "cling" 

and sometimes it is healthy to "claim to possessions" 

but it is not healthy to become "possessive" 

it is healthy to be "concerned" and to show it

but certainly its unhealthy to show concern in an ugly way

but then again the best thing to do is to "detach" 

sometimes of course and not in all situations

we do not need to be so clingy to certain people in the name of "caring for them"

cause it has that "counter" effect  

rather we sometimes need to "GIVE SPACE" !

hence the concept ... "counter intuitive"