social phobia

may sound strange 

but is actually serious and true

surely human beings have phobias and such

which are developed through biological, environmental and cognitive causes

one phobia which grasped my attention 

"which happened because of a situation"

is the social phobia

yes it dose sound funny to be scared of social 

activities or social interactions, but surely that is something real

and probably some of us encountered some sort of situation

within this context

people not being capable of handling a conversation 

fear of approaching people 

even if it was to just ask them a question like 

"what time is it?"

or even feeling awkward seeing an old acquaintance

you had a conversation with before 

in an occasion or even in a public place

and avoiding them or not approaching them to greet them

these situations can be indicators to having something of the problem

but when it reaches to the point of fearing to leave the house

then definitely there is a bigger problem

with the first situation it is normal somehow

but of course not good 

we do tend to feel a bit uneasy among certain people

or through certain events where you meet new people

some of us have the ability to handle such situations

some don't however its not much of a problem

but if it reached to the point of fearing to leave the house

and even fearing to be around people or being around

crowds of people the problem has to be dealt with !

having social skills actually exert and show a more

confident outlay 

and people actually tend to get attracted to confidence