am fine ... i guess

sometimes we never realize what we are doing

until we get that "smack on the head" 

or 

have someone make us realize 

which is of course better than the first scenario !

it happened to me, some time ago 

i was out and i was going to meet up with some mates to finalize a university project

where coincidently i bumped into another friend 

we exchanged greetings and then one of my team mates for the project 

came and was also a mutual friend and so the three of us had an interesting conversation

where somewhere along the way i said this sentence :

"i am fine i guess" 

not realizing that i said it, one of the friends brought it up in a very humorous way 

saying : every time we ask you how are you you say your fine ... i guess !

at that moment i realized that i said that sentence 

and a rush of thoughts came racing through my brain 

one of the thoughts where " AM I PREDICTABLE ?" 

surely the matter is beyond predictability 

after that incident it actually made me realize a lot

about myself and how i see the world around me

after that, i started trying to change myself or at least 

think of that incident and try to change myself 

and again this has a lot to do with the power of realization

which i talked about in a previous article 

to be able to realize and then to be able to read the signs 

or read the writing on the wall 

then to take actions!

some of us are lucky to get that smack 

or more better have someone makes us think !

Note: this article i would love to dedicate this article

to the person who really made me realize 

and would like to say 

"Thank you Ahmad, it might have been a humorous reply but it made me think"