Lets begin this article with a story!
Once upon a time
there was a naive dude
who did not know much about the world
or the happenings in it
One day he met a fellow who seemed well leveled
and quite an interesting person to share an intellectual conversation with
little by little
there were a lot in common
and there was a share of great conversation all along
little by little
things were discovered about this fellow person
little by little
new behaviors started to come up
little by little
this fellow started showing his true colors!
and they were certainly not pleasant colors
There was a great deal of apple polishing
thinking that it was normal but it was wrong!
There was a great deal of admiration
to a degree of honoring on a pedestal
which was also wrong!
however the mistake was done
and it was conceded that
this person was put on a pedestal
but it was his wrong place!
Have you ever get that sort of situation?
Where a nice person comes along and you
Act nice with them (Although it is fishy)
Treat them with love (Although they do not deserve it)
Yes we stumble upon that sort of people from time to time
Nice on the outside but questionable on the inside
But the main lesson one learns is that
NEVER
put a person on a pedestal no matter how well you think you may know them!
you may think that they are nice!
you may think that they are trustworthy
you may think many things
but never ever put them up!
it all comes down to the right expectations towards people
BUT
never ever put them on a pedestal!
only to know that they will fall is only heart wrenching moment.
You do what you need to do which is be nice!
but that is all that you can do from your side.
Good luck!
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