the relations audit

i believe you have heard the word somewhere

(Audit)

it usually is synonymous with Money !

and accounting activities

and generally defined as 

an evaluation of person, organization,system, process 

enterprise, project, product ... etc

and so its more of an evaluation look towards 

a certain thing 

a more thorough exact inspection 

in order to incur betterment 

to an overall goal 

but have you ever heard of a relations audit ?

some might be doing it knowingly 

and some don't know about it

the term however (relations audit)

is a term only i came up with recently 

(which is free to use by anyone LOL)

due to recent events encountered personally be certain people 

made me realize maybe i need to go through the people i know

and perhaps maybe consider the fact that i would want to continue knowing them?

or perhaps just leave them ?

and that is where the relations audit come into working !

since it is defined as a process of evaluation and (person) 

is included why not do it ?

moreover i decided to take it to action 

* listing of all the people i know

i have listed all the people i know and decided to see

should i continue knowing this certain person or no?

*listing of each person's compilation of qualities 

with each and every single person you know

you would mention and write their qualities 

characteristics, and their behaviors  

*listing of person's qualities in terms of good ones / bad ones

list each person's good and bad things in them

and balance out the good and bad in them

*list the person's history (if there was one)

go through all the things you went with that person you had a relation with

whether its good or bad 

list each and every single situation you have been in 

and each and every single story that has you together

and after all that 

its decision time !

take an evaluative look towards all that you have

compiled with that person

and all that has to do with them

and ask yourself

should you continue with this relation with them?

would they be any good to you some day?

would they improve themselves if they are bad to begin with?

from that you will get to know what to do with those people

and try to figure things out with them 

overall you will be improving yourself

through the people you are surrounded

if you are surrounded with good people or bad people

it will always reflect on you 

and thus comes the reason for the relations audit

to overall improve yourself 

throughout the people you spend your time with

since you are influence partially by the people you are with ! 

Good luck everyone =)