cycle and recycle

its a popular phrase that is widely used 

which says 

(he who spends 40 days with certain people becomes one of them)

which practically defines how one can influence you in a way

were you become just like them 

some time ago 

i knew a person who really was stubborn 

and had his own way of acting 

which makes him the way he is 

not much of a good person 

yet not that type of person who would hurt anyone

he had really bad habits 

which were showing everyday 

and he was in direct contact with me

and so sometimes it felt as if he was rubbing whatever 

behaviors he is having towards me personally

and thus i was once faced with a situation with that person

were in he was in his (high horse) acting the way that he acts

and not even being tactful and soft spoken
(even if the problem is aggravating him personally)
we were on a telephone conversation
and we have been facing a problem
it was a big problem
however it did not give him the right to act the way he did

and so
something which i admit i should not have done
which was get in vibe with how he acts
as he was screaming i started screaming too

and though the telephone conversation ended
and i stepped back to observe the situation

i realized it was a cycle !
a thing were he (the person i knew) has been acting in a certain way all along
then recycling his attitudes towards me

again comes to that point which i said in the beginning
we can be easily influenced by one another
we can get what other people have
and then reuse it to other people

it is once you think about it
a cycle and recycle thing

were you would cycle a behavior you have
then pass it on to someone else
then that person
recycles that behavior to someone else
and so on and so forth

and so we can come to a conclusion

if you exhibit good behavior
naturally you will pass on good behavior

if you don't then you surely will pass on
that bad behavior

and you will soon realize everyone is up on your business
because you are acting that way !

simply comprehensible right?
not a big issue nor is it a
huge thing

well then start doing it !