forgiving and forgetting

do you remember how conflict takes place 

when we were young?

typically at school with other mates, when you have a disagreement

with a mate during class, but then you forgive and forget right about recess time !

it is just amazing how young ones (children) handle conflict

(of course not all children ... some resolve conflict through fight LOL)

but mainly lets focus on that idea that we mentioned above 

as children we disagree during class but we share our packed lunches during recess

its just amazing how we as "ADULTS" and young adolescents

need to learn about the power of forgiving and forgetting

and let those people back in into our lives

but as we grow up ... our outlook on things came a long way 

since we were toddlers 

things that we see as grownups differ a lot from what we saw as children

(What ever the situation may be) 

and how we sometimes choose not to forgive a person (out of vain sometimes)

 and maybe reflect on the idea whether to forgive that person or not 

(for what ever reason it may be)

in my opinion (and you are free to disagree with me or to agree)

we really do need to look back at those times 

and really try to learn from them 

no matter how big the problem is , it never is a reason to let someone out of your life

and / or your heart !

(of course depending on the situation)

but the main idea of this post is to actually learn to forgive and forget and 

to reflect on those times when we just forgave each other !

you never know ... life is short and it may be too late !