a blessing in disguise

how many times have you heard that phrase

that a certain thing happening is a blessing in disguise 

meaning that a certain even that took place in your life 

actually has some sort of good behind it 

if we were able to understand the bigger message 

and saw the big picture

one of those blessings in disguise 

something i talk from a personal experience

is that we seem to see people leaving out of our lives

from time to time

 

we get sad mostly because there are people who are departing our lives 

not in the sense that they are dying (not at all)

but more in the sense of leaving it 

they all of a sudden drop out of sight

just seize to exist 

in the whole compilation of our lives 

they just go out of it

for many apparent reasons 

or unclear reasons

that is one thing and it is actually quite a frequent thing to occur

one of the many things that go in life

we must learn something from it

and lesson is

not all goodbyes are sad

and thus we come to our

(blessing in disguise)

its not so bad if certain people left your life 

we as human beings we tend to learn only when things 

are long gone

we later realize that what its worth 

and then we realize exactly that its not that bad

when they actually left 

(of course we can do that or just leave that as the body's mechanism of recovery!)