Thank god for failure!

Yes why are you wondering?

I am grateful to failure!

Thank god it exists! And thank god we have it

Yes we hate loathsomely to fail 

or to be even subject to fail 

but failure is a blessing 

(Which of course is in disguise) 

not a a lot can recognize it.

Failure basically is the unsuccessful attempt in achieving something

Its natural that we have all that BIG goals and BIG dreams 

that we hope and wish to achieve one day

yet that ghost visits us and haunts us and then!

WHAM

you fall on the ground face down!

(i know that is harsh but that is just a figure of speech)

WHY IS IT IMPORTANT TO FAIL?

For these simple three points

Its important to fail in order for you to 

* Learn

* Grown

* Realize

- Learn- 

To have a better understanding of how things actually work!

- Grow -

To have a much more mature sense of life and a more sensible way of thinking

- Realize -

To be able to help you realize that you have something after all

But the main thing you need to also know about failure

is that it is a more than helpful INDICATOR

to make you REALIZE and from then on let you LEARN and then you head off to life and GROW

You need to taste failure to know success! 

When the brain loses logic

Let me confess to this problem that i have personally!

Oh my god ... stop doing that!

I should not think of this!

What if this happens?

What if that happens?

Well if this happens then this will happen

Well if that happens then that will happen 

I shouldn't be thinking about this

No i should be thinking about this!

Perhaps i am over thinking

No i am not over thinking

That dear readers is just a fragment of what happens in my head

What is that? 

You may ask 

And i answer you back and say 

It is a common problem shared between the most of us

Yes LOGIC departs our brain sometimes

That is true, it takes a flight to somewhere and leaves us to shambles 

and in a complete state of disaster

We cannot help it but be this way sometimes

We can say that its "Human Nature"

Yet we can choose the "MORE LOGICAL" 

way in dealing with such issues

Yes this will be a somewhat constant part of our lives

Having that particular moment of this "Mind chaos" 

Yet all can be controlled

How to control this mayhem?

The key here is LOGIC its self

* If you have a wild thought popping up fight it with logic!

* If you happen to have a negative thought fight it with logic!

Prove that thought wrong!

I do recall that i wrote previously how

over thinking can be devastating

and yes it can be devastating

I do remember a dear friend of mine how she had her own way in combating these sort of thought!

She chose to take a stand to her own brain and she decided to be decisive with it

( I WILL NOT THINK ABOUT THAT THOUGHT AND I WILL STOP THIS SEQUENCE OF THOUGHTS) 

lets take control and be decisive with our brains!

Good luck ;)   

The fuel of persistence

Life is one of the many things that we seem to want to understand

Or try to want to know what we want from it 

Either way life is still a mystery to us all.

We see ourselves immersed into the things we do

we fall into that pit of routine  

Sometimes we find ourselves at a crossroad 

where we are forced to take up that one decision

And unfortunately we also sometimes see ourselves

at a place where we did not intend to be in.

no matter where we go in life

or how we go about in life

there is one thing that keeps us alive and that keeps us going!

That one thing that makes us wake up in the morning face the challenges of the day

and stand 10 feet tall 

You may ask what that thing is!?

And i tell you

its Dreams!

Your dreams, yes the things that we desire and internally screams out to us all 

wishing to be accomplished!

Yes dreams are the fuel of persistence in life

with all its challenges and hopes for a better tomorrow 

Dreams are the fuel that makes us want to grab that better tomorrow

and hope for it from today

But remember there is a price for this (Dream) that you would want to achieve

Will you be able to make it?

Only you can tell 

and only you can give the story

and hopefully achieve the dream that you always had

Remember in the end ...

Dreams are the fuel of persistence in life

and only YOU can keep the dream running and burning!

3 years and counting

Again celebrating a totally belated Birthday

A place where it all began

A place where i started writing and decided not to stop!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BLOG! 

NOT a life expert keeps on growing every year without me noticing it!

it all began back then in 2010!

and here we are at 2013 still going on.

no one can foretell the future 

all that one can do is live the present 

Just live in the present 

Just live in the moment!

Happy reading everyone! 

Never Postpone On A Decision

A new month come 

after a month of not writing anything 

SIDE NOTE

Its fine that you go away from doing something

breaking the routine and then getting back

Just to live life as it is in order to see and live life 

and then come back to be able to write! 

Its just like a vacation ! 

THE MAIN TOPIC

now back to the article and our main subject to express and share!

Never ever postpone on a decision in your life! 

Especially if its a decision that means happiness

although it sounds so direct but that is the point 

If you feel that there is something that is hindering you down

towards achieving what makes you happy 

never let it put you down and work towards your happiness 

and its something that is related to your happiness

always make a big stand towards your own happiness

And remember that you have the key to your own happiness

not anyone else 

no one will ever have or own your happiness 

you are the soul owner of your own happiness 

never hesitate on a decision that is related to it! 

Live on and keep on dreaming on =) 

Why can't i get over it

So you have been in a certain situation in your life

it effected you in either a good way or a bad way

and then it came up to some sort of an unwanted ending

so we can talk about break ups form relationships 

since it is relate-able

but there are also other life situation where it ended in an undesired way

 - The loss of a loved one (a thing that is quite drastic)

- Reaching the end of a job 

- Having to go through new changes in your personal life

- Having to get accommodated to uneasy changes 

All those are examples, of how can one go through an agonizing experience

of having a void left in their lives and hearts 

to have to recuperate and to have to (Get over it) and continue with life

there has been a lot of topics and articles that i have personally wrote and talked about

i would recall a few but then there comes an annoying bit in this issue ...

WHY CAN'T I GET OVER IT?

That is the main issue that is bothering all who are trying to move on

but cannot move on.

That is Normal of course, its totally acceptable to have this happening 

to move on from a painful experience needs time 

It needs devotion and attention, and to achieve it you need to really devote yourself 

and give time mainly! 

It will be a painstaking process 

one only dreams of the end result

but keeps his head on the ground 

so don't worry if you don't get over it !

No one can tell for sure when they are really over it

However it takes time to get there

 and there is no clear pathway or a magic potion that will ease it all up

so take time and give yourself some time to be able to go through it.

Good luck everyone =) 

Lies or disappointments?

Now this came across my mind the other day

as i thought thoroughly about this subject 

lets ask you all this question 

Would you like to be lied to ?

Or would you .... 

Prefer to face disappointments 

quite tough? No? Perhaps?

Might be challenging to ask, however some might also have a clear answer

some would prefer living a lie than to face a disappointment

some may have it the other way around, they prefer to face the disappointments

rather than face lies.

Lets do some definitions 

Disappointments 

The feeling of sadness or displeasure caused by fulfillment of expectations

Lies

Intentionally providing false statements

let put these terms both in a story 

a Superior gave his two subordinates a task to finish upon an agreed time

Subordinate (A) the lair

Subordinate (B) the disappointment

through out the process of delivering the task 

these two common replies whenever the boss asks them

Subordinate (A) -  "Yes all is well and i am in the right track"

 Subordinate (B) - "Well ... there are a few things missing that i must do"

and as this continued until the due date

when this happened

Subordinate (A) - "The objectives haven't been met yet the task has been accomplished"

Subordinate (B) - "The project is almost complete however some time is needed to really finish it up"

i guess you can clearly see what i am talking about

and no it is not a management lesson

the liar will find a way to always give an excuse 

and the disappointment will tell the truth (maybe not all the time- but that is another point)

Yes they both may have not done the task given to them

within the allotted time 

but each had their reply towards the task 

whether it was a lie or a truth 

so we still ask the question

Would you prefer to have a lie 

or a disappointment ?

If the disappointment (was the truth)

and was the one that came in first

i can safely say (according to what i think) 

is better 

than to live in that "Lie" 

 where i would have gone through a certain expectation that 

i would be believing that lie that it will happen

then the disappointment was to hit at a later stage

and it will hit even harder as a result 

(but what if the disappointment was a lie?)

that is another story to consider 

which is double the amount of it all 

best solution "never expect anything from anyone" 

or that is not always the best solution is it?

MORAL 

- sometimes its best to be disappointed rather to be lead on and lied to 

- sometimes its not always the better alternative to have when someone disappoints you

and lies in the same time !

at least that is what i think

But what do you all think?

Do share your thoughts