My annual yearly analysis

as mentioned in a previous post 

i have mentioned something about the yearly analysis that i always do

which is a simple thorough look into my own life

which anyone can adapt and use to themselves 

through out the past year 

what has been done

what has been achieved

anything new

or anything that has happened 

which has been the catalyst 

to do or achieve more

and then after that analysis 

you come to a conclusion of what you are doing in life

and where you are headed and then

make a small plan of what you would want to achieve after that 

so lets begin with the basic bullet points of what happened in my life

* Starting off the year with a new opportunity
little did i know what it hid for me but it was challenging

*finding love
it was not planned for but that is how things go in life
and as swift as it came, it also left

*hard reminding lessons of life
that nothing is constant, and that sometimes
it is hard to accept that even those who are close to you
can actually be or cause harm at some certain level to you

*Question Everything !
supporting to the point above,

* experimenting with my limits 

with the new opportunity that i got
i had a lot of (testings) with my limits
abilities and patience
and of course i have known my limits

* Diving into new things
trying out new experiments and
always getting on new challenges

and so that is pretty much what i have encountered
in this year
hoping for the next year to face more opportunities
and more challenges 

Its that usual time of the year

Hello everyone 

whom ever is having a great day 

and for those who are not believing in the end of the world

(well nothing happened) 

continuing on with what is remaining of this year

which went quite so fast too 

one can only sit back and try to reflect into what has happened 

within a year 

and thus comes that one thing 

that habit which i have created personally

and which i still urge you all to do 

which is the (Yearly Analysis) 

now what is the yearly analysis ?

just like in business 

any organization evaluates its performance throughout the year

and so even us as goal setting people 

asses ourselves 

we see what we have reached and achieved

and we see what we would like to achieve 

and thus comes the yearly analysis

you evaluate yourself from different aspects 

and then set goals from what you have evaluated 

its something to reflect personally on 

what you would like to do 

and where would you like to reach 

and generally what do you want to do in life !

i will share with you all an example of this later on 

and i do urge you all to try and perhaps even enhance and perfect on 

this analysis 

this is not just a one rule fit for all 

it can be created to suite anyone 

but i am different !

 a topic that got my attention for some time

it is something i have noticed with some people

it is a bit irritating to see

and it is also a bit concerning 

some may or may not pay much attention to it

personally i thought that this topic must be at least 

brought up and to see what would other people think about !

now speaking of personality 

of course you are an accumulation of different things

you would be having good in you and bad in you

now after getting into that small introduction 

we get into the topic, and its some sort of a personal encounter that i had

the other day i got into some sort of disagreement with someone

it was something of a personal matter

and the other person was trying to prove a point

or more actually trying to prove himself 

by using the statement which i believe everyone heard like a dozen times already

and the statement is 

(But i am different than the rest ....)

at that point i thought to myself, how original 

stating that you are quite unlike the others

now as thought it may be true that that person is quite different that the other

one can think and point out a few things 

1- of course you are different people are this way !

2- its never original the way you prove that you are different by just saying it

and even if you said it, it will not prove it 

as the majority repel from such statements

at this current day and age 

people prefer smart articulated statements

not plain old (run of the mill) type of statements 

in fact 

if anyone believes they are different 

they won't be needing to prove it to anyone

you are individually the way you are

without any proof needed 

and as Dr.Seuss said 

“Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You.”

Whats on your mind?

Any one in any given time

face that dreaded accumulation of thoughts 

its a moment were thoughts 

as random as they can decide to have a (Party Inside your head) 

so to speak

its totally natural to have that accumulation 

it comes especially when you are about to go to bed

you start thinking of something you did throughout your day

then contemplate on it and think about other things

you think about what you should be doing 

also for the next day, and then you think about that incident

which was totally unnecessary and embarrassing

and so ... you know where is this going yeah? 

and sometimes the tolerable version of this story
happens when you are a bit awake

in either cases you do feel a bit irritated from the fact
that what ever thoughts you are having
are haunting your mind

and that there is no escape for that
well ... almost

the other day i had en experience
where i had these reoccurring thoughts
which haunted me constantly

they were relating to a person
who i knew
i got my courage
and just thought of saying what i wanted to say to that person

much to my surprise it was not quite understood by them

although it did not bother me one bit
as i was only able to just express my mind out

(although i might owe that person a little more explanation rather than leaving them hanging on)

it made me feel a bit more better
since i have been able to take a load off of my chest

not a lot could get the chance
according to the situation that they have

but there are many ways one can just express what is on their minds
it can be expressed with a bit of creativity
and it can be dealt with with great care and tentativeness

just try to keep your mind free of random thoughts from time to time
and try to make them understandable when you expressing them

New Explorations

I got the inspiration to write for this article

from a toastmaster speech 

for a new member to the local club in which i attend regularly

the speech mainly talked about exploration

expanding out and exploring the world 

in which we live in 

and he continued on to mention that exploration

has been taken to a new level

where not just land and waters were being explored

but to reach out beyond the horizon 

to explore in space 

and at that point 

it got me ...

i added after the end of the speech 

a small little remark 

in which gave me the inspiration to this article

and i said 

" we may have explored lands and waters, however there is a place we may have not explored, or we choose to be a bit reluctant to explore ... which is our self's"

our inner self

what makes us the way we are

what we are consisted of 

it is true,

that we tend to not give much attention 

when it comes to exploring ourselves 

to try and figure out what we really are

our strengths and weak points 

and what could be our potentials 

we tend to do so 

sometimes directly or indirectly

because we generally 

do not know about ourselves

or about the matter mainly 

how to explore ?

where to start?

its totally fine 

just realize the fact that you need to explore yourself

and then all rest will follow up later on

and all will unfold to clear its self within time

and you will then discover how to explore yourself 

i will also be joining you all dear readers and try to explore myself too

and perhaps share more point from after this article !

OMG i doomed myself - Part 2

last year i wrote an article

in the exact same title 

within almost the same time frame 

and since most of my articles
are somewhat related to each other
(actually they are always related to each other)

i decided to share with you my thoughts in a rather different
method of expression
in which personally i have made
linking in most of what i have posted
(and actually learned through out the course of time)

and post it up to share it with you all
most of what i am about to say
will be in bullet points and will be easy to follow up towards the main idea
which i want to say

so here we go :

* Yes you have the right to make mistakes
it is something essential in life for you to learn
no matter how hard the lesson is
it will teach you

*you may have the right to do mistakes
but don't forget that you also have to bear the consequences
to your wrong doings even if you did not like it
you cannot simply run away from the consequences especially if they are haunting you directly !

*Realization is a key factor
for the Arabic Proverb said
(if you knew that is a problem, and if you did not know then its a bigger problem)

it goes a long way into trying to solve the problem
for it is even before confessing having a problem
it is to realize it !

*OMG i doomed myself again !
yes that is the part where you can frantically panic
or just vent out in none aggressive none harmful manners

*solving the problem
after frantically panicking, you can now proceed to solve the problem
or try to solve it with what ever means available

just remember
you can "Doom" yourself many times
but preferably some want to avoid  (dooming oneself)
so it brings us to another point

* Think and study options
to minimize the mistakes that may occur

and thus we end this article
with a small little note

we don't actually take all that i have mentioned seriously
or even think about it !

Happy 2nd Birthday To the (not a life expert) Blog !

it was in this same timing as last year

where it started with an (AHA moment) 

and then continued through out 2 years now

giving out articles on various topics 

relating to people, life, and experiences worth sharing

and now continuing to the second year 

here we are celebrating 

all that is about life 

and about relationships

and the people who come together in to this unique mix

giving out an array of experience worth sharing

and things to talk about with people

and most importantly to learn and share with one another

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BLOG ! 

may you continue on giving out topics 

and sharing thoughts with everyone else

learning and achieving too !